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Sian Dyer

Sian Dyer, BACP

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - Anxiety and Relationships

  • ACT informed
  • Attachment focus
  • CBT techniques

About Sian

Sian Dyer is a counsellor accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) with five years' experience. She works with adults on problems such as anxiety, stress, low mood, relationship difficulties, low self‑esteem and feeling disconnected or stuck. She also supports people facing trauma, grief, addiction and issues around identity and intimacy.

Sian combines cognitive behavioural ideas with attachment‑based and client‑centred ways of working. She pays attention to the nervous system and how fight, flight, freeze or shutdown responses shape feelings and behaviour. In sessions she explains these reactions in plain terms and looks at small changes that reduce overwhelm.

Work typically focuses on emotional regulation, strengthening boundaries and rebuilding self‑trust. Practical skills for managing anxiety and mood sit alongside reflection about past experiences and attachment patterns. She also offers help for couples wanting to improve communication and reduce repeated rows or blame cycles.

Sian encourages short, manageable steps that fit into a busy life. She uses conversations, simple exercises and grounded breathing or body‑based strategies to support change. The emphasis is on clarity and usable tools rather than dense theory.

People who come to her often want clearer emotional responses, steadier mood, and better ways to handle stress or relationship strain. For those needing help with grief, addiction, ADHD or career pressure, sessions aim to make problems easier to live with and more understandable.

How Sian uses therapy approaches online

Sian draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment‑Based Therapy to shape online work. ACT focuses on noticing thoughts and values, and learning small actions that matter despite uncomfortable feelings; it can help with anxiety, low mood and feeling stuck. Attachment‑based work looks at how early relationships shape current reactions and closeness; this is useful for relationship strain, intimacy issues and patterns of withdrawal or blame.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Sian will talk with each person about their goals and preferences, and choose techniques that fit those needs. That means practical skills for emotion regulation alongside reflection on patterns from the past, decided in collaboration with the client.

The practical benefits of remote sessions include fitting conversations into a busy life and keeping momentum between meetings. Because the biography does not list specific session formats, confirm the current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to keep regular appointments, use short check‑ins when time is tight, and try exercises that transfer into everyday routines.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does she help with?

Sian works with adults on anxiety, stress, low mood, relationship problems, self‑esteem, trauma, grief, addiction and related concerns listed in her profile.

What is her style of therapy?

She mixes cognitive behavioural tools with attachment‑based and client‑centred approaches, and pays attention to nervous system responses and emotional regulation.

How much experience does she have?

She has five years' experience working with adults and couples on a broad range of emotional and relationship issues.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

Sian holds BACP accreditation and is based in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live abroad?

Sessions are available to international clients; sessions are offered in English.

What session formats does she offer?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How does cost and payment work?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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