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Femi Carty

Femi Carty, BACP

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - Young adult issues and relationships

  • Attachment-based work
  • Client-centred approach
  • CBT techniques

About Femi

Femi Carty is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) with four years' practice in the United Kingdom. He works with young adults on issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship problems, grief and coping with life changes. He also supports people dealing with parenting concerns, addiction, stress and career uncertainty.

Femi uses an integrative approach and draws on several methods to meet different needs. That means he will talk through what is happening, try to understand patterns from early relationships, and work on practical changes for day-to-day life. Sessions focus on thoughts, feelings and behaviours so clients leave with clearer steps to try between meetings.

Early sessions begin with an assessment to map current mental health and reasons for counselling. From there he and the client plan what the work will look like and agree on goals. The first meeting is framed as a chance to build trust and check that working together feels right.

Practical options include telephone appointments throughout the day and video sessions from 18:00 UK time. Femi accepts clients based in the UK and international clients and conducts sessions in English. Fees vary by location and are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

He applies methods drawn from attachment-based work, client-centred approaches, cognitive behavioural techniques, emotionally-focused ideas and Jungian thinking. These are blended to suit individual concerns rather than used in a fixed order.

How his approaches translate to online work

Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and helps with intimacy, trust and relationship difficulties. It involves talking about past and present interactions to notice repeating dynamics and try new ways of relating. Client-centred counselling focuses on the client's perspective and uses open conversation to help clarify goals, feelings and choices. It is useful for people unsure what they want to change. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) identifies unhelpful thoughts and behaviours and introduces practical exercises to test and change them, helpful for anxiety, low mood and stress.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. Femi will work collaboratively to decide which mix of methods best fits the client’s needs, aims and preferences. That means checking in after early sessions and adjusting focus as work progresses.

Practical benefits of online sessions include fitting counselling into study, work and busy days. Telephone appointments can be scheduled throughout the day for shorter check-ins or when video is not needed. Video sessions are offered from 18:00 UK time for longer, face-to-face style conversations. Confirm current session options before booking so arrangements match your routine and technology setup.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesGriefParenting issuesDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Jungian TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

Which issues does he help with?

He supports young adults with anxiety, depression, relationship problems, grief and coping with life changes, plus parenting, addiction and career concerns.

What is his style in sessions?

He uses an integrative, client-centred style that explores thoughts, feelings and behaviours and works toward practical steps you can try between sessions.

How much experience does he have?

Femi has four years of counselling experience working with adults in the UK and beyond.

What are his credentials and location?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Can I see him if I live outside the UK?

International clients are accepted and sessions are offered in English.

Which session formats does he offer?

He provides telephone sessions throughout the day and video sessions from 18:00 UK time; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions paid for?

Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with him?

Select the "See online therapy options" button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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