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Judith "Jude" Holland

Judith "Jude" Holland, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - relationships and trauma

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
  • Attachment-Based work
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

About Judith

Judith "Jude" Holland is a BACP counsellor in the United Kingdom with 27 years of professional experience. She works with relationship struggles, trauma and abuse, grief and loss, and coping with life changes. Jude also supports people with mood conditions such as bipolar, and with issues around intimacy, addictions, sleep and eating. She has experience with LGBT concerns and career and self‑esteem difficulties.

Jude sees people as experts in their own lives and uses that perspective to build practical ways forward. In sessions she listens, reflects and helps people try out new ways of thinking and behaving. She draws on a mix of approaches so sessions can include noticing thoughts, learning practical skills, and exploring attachment patterns in relationships.

Her background includes long experience in sexual assault services and work with adult survivors. She has also worked in higher education setting up student counselling and later teaching therapy for many years. That mix of frontline and teaching work shapes an approach that is straightforward and grounded in practice.

Jude aims to work respectfully and directly, offering clear feedback alongside compassionate listening. She is used to helping people facing big life transitions - leaving home, changing careers, relationship breakdowns, and bereavement. Sessions focus on small, usable steps that fit into everyday life.

If you are wondering whether therapy could help, Jude encourages a short initial match to see how you get on and to agree the ways of working that suit you.

Therapeutic approaches and doing therapy online

Judith draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help people notice thoughts and choose actions that reflect their values. ACT often focuses on practical steps and willingness to try different behaviours when life feels stuck. She also uses Attachment‑Based Therapy to look at how early relationship patterns affect current connections. This approach helps people understand repeating patterns and try new ways of relating.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Jude will discuss your preferences, goals and what has helped or not helped before. Together you will decide which methods to try and adjust them as you go so sessions stay relevant to your situation.

If you are considering online sessions, please confirm the offered session formats before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into study, work or busy schedules, remove travel time, and allow shorter check‑in sessions when needed. It can also let you choose quieter surroundings, avoid being on camera, or use audio only if that suits you better. Registered or accredited professionals can offer a range of online options, and Jude will explain what she uses so you can pick what fits your life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)HypnotherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

27+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Jude help with?

She helps with relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, bipolar and mood concerns, addictions, intimacy and sexual issues, sleep and eating problems, self‑esteem and career worries.

What is her way of working in sessions?

She combines client-centred listening with practical methods such as CBT and ACT, and explores attachment patterns where relevant. Sessions balance talking with skill practice and real‑life steps.

How much experience does she have?

She has 27 years of professional experience working in counselling, therapeutic services and education settings.

What credential and location are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be held in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she offer sessions for people outside the UK?

She accepts international clients; confirm time zones and practical details before booking.

How are sessions arranged and paid for?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to try therapy with her?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

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