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Rob Millist

Rob Millist, BACP, NCPS

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - Young adult issues and anxiety

  • Attachment focus
  • CBT and mindfulness
  • Coaching elements

About Rob

Rob Millist is a counsellor registered with BACP and NCPS and has seven years of practice in the United Kingdom. He works with adults on issues such as stress, anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship and intimacy-related concerns, and career and life transitions. Rob also supports people dealing with trauma, grief, addictions and self-esteem difficulties.

He describes a practical, conversational style that mixes talking therapy with grounding techniques. Sessions begin with a longer first meeting to go through presenting issues and agree goals. He uses a simple monthly Wellbeing Score to check progress together.

Rob has worked in both one-to-one and corporate settings and has experience with voluntary services such as Youthline UK, Mind and PAWS. That background shapes a straightforward approach to workplace stress, career questions and early-adult pressures. He also lists additional focus areas including attachment issues, autism and Asperger syndrome, body image, chronic illness, and communication problems.

In sessions he draws on Attachment-Based, Client-Centred, Cognitive Behavioural and Psychodynamic ideas alongside mindfulness and coaching techniques. That means conversations range from exploring past patterns and relationships to trying practical steps and coping strategies now.

People who tend to benefit are those wanting clear, regular check-ins and a mix of talking and skill-based work. Rob invites clients to set the pace and to bring questions about goals, boundaries and day-to-day coping. He works in English and practises in the UK.

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Rob often blends Attachment-Based and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) approaches. Attachment-Based work looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and can help with trust, intimacy and abandonment concerns. CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and trying practical steps to change behaviours and reduce symptoms like anxiety or low mood.

He also draws on Client-Centred principles, which emphasise listening and working at the clients pace while the counsellor reflects and supports decision-making. Together, these approaches allow conversations about past patterns alongside straightforward coping tools for day-to-day life. Finding the right combination is part of the work, and the therapist will work with the client to agree which methods suit their goals and preferences.

The biography does not list specific online session formats, so check the current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit counselling around study, work or travel and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. They also remove the need to travel and can help people keep appointments during busy weeks, but confirm the exact session types offered when you arrange a first meeting.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Rob help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship and intimacy-related issues, career and life changes, trauma, grief and addictions, among other concerns listed in his profile.

What is his therapeutic style?

Rob uses a conversational, practical style that combines talking therapy with grounding and skill-based techniques such as mindfulness and CBT exercises.

How much experience does he have?

He has seven years of counselling and coaching experience, including work in one-to-one and corporate settings and volunteering roles with organisations such as Youthline UK, Mind and PAWS.

What are his credentials and where does he practise?

He is listed with BACP and NCPS and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with him in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats here; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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