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Melissa Stokes

Melissa Stokes, AASW, AHPRA

Australia

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AASW social worker - young adult issues

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Trauma and abuse
  • ACT and CBT methods

About Melissa

Melissa Stokes is an AASW accredited social worker and appears on the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA) register with 25 years of professional experience. She works with stress, anxiety, grief, depression, bipolar, ADHD and other concerns young adults commonly face, including life transitions, career questions and relationship stress. She is also experienced supporting people who identify as LGBT and those affected by trauma and abuse.

Melissa uses a mix of approaches rather than a single method. She draws on cognitive-behavioural strategies, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and attachment-based thinking to help people notice what matters to them and build practical skills. She also uses client-centred techniques to keep conversation clear and collaborative.

Her background includes work in domestic violence services, youth justice, sexual assault support, hospitals and community mental health. That range means she is familiar with crisis settings and longer-term care, and with combining skills training and psychoeducation with therapy conversations.

Melissa supervises students and other clinicians as part of her commitment to sharing practice knowledge. She has contributed to research on gendered violence and completed a thesis on online mindfulness learners and motivation, which informs how she thinks about engagement and skill practice.

Outside work she likes hiking, foraging, music, board games, cooking, yoga and time with her dogs. She brings practical experience and a clear, person-focused approach to meetings with people navigating early adult life changes.

How her approaches translate to online sessions

Melissa works with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) in ways that suit online delivery. ACT helps people notice what matters to them and take small committed actions; online sessions can focus on simple exercises and values-based goal setting. CBT targets unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns through practical tools and homework, which can be shared and reviewed in follow-up online sessions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Melissa discusses goals, preferences and what has or hasn't helped before recommending methods. This is a collaborative process and may include mixing ACT and CBT or drawing on attachment ideas depending on the issue and the person.

The original profile indicates she offers online sessions, but does not list specific formats. Confirm which session formats are currently offered before booking. Online appointments can make it easier to fit therapy around study, work or travel, allow shorter check-ins when time is tight, and let people use audio-only options if they prefer not to be on camera. Appropriately qualified or registered therapists can adapt exercises, share resources electronically and set practical homework to suit everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

GriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

Australia

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, ADHD, grief, eating and sleeping problems, and challenges around life changes and career.

How would she work with someone feeling lost after university?

She uses a collaborative, skills-focused style drawing on cognitive-behavioural and acceptance-based techniques to clarify values, set practical goals and build coping strategies.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Melissa has 25 years of professional experience across hospital, community mental health, youth justice and sexual assault services.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is listed with the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA) and is an AASW accredited social worker, practising in Australia.

Can I see her if English is not my first language?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

The original profile lists online work; please confirm current session formats and any in-person options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

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Melissa StokesAASW, AHPRA

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