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Brandi Loudermilk

Brandi Loudermilk, LCMFT

Kansas

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LCMFT - Relationships and Young Adult Concerns

  • Relationship conflict
  • Sexual issues
  • LGBTQ support

About Brandi

Brandi Loudermilk is a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist (LCMFT) practicing in Kansas with 10 years of experience. She works with adults on anxiety, stress, depression, relationship and intimacy-related issues, and with people from the LGBTQ community.

She offers straightforward, practical support for relationship concerns and sexual issues. That includes help with consensual non-monogamy, BDSM and kink questions, sexual performance worries, and conflicts that come up in relationships. She also works with people who have attachment concerns, dissociation, or co-occurring mental health challenges.

Brandi has spent a decade seeing a wide range of presenting issues. That background includes experience with serious and persistent mental illness and developmental differences such as autism and Asperger syndrome. She also has experience supporting people facing divorce, blended family strain, and first responder stress.

Sessions focus on building skills and clearer communication. Brandi aims to help individuals and partners notice patterns, set practical goals, and try new ways of relating. She respects non-traditional relationship structures and the needs of queer clients.

If you are considering therapy for relationship strain, sexual concerns, or ongoing anxiety and depression, she asks prospective clients to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule an initial session. Brandi provides services from Kansas and conducts sessions in English.

How evidence-based approaches translate to online sessions

Many therapists use evidence-based techniques that focus on patterns in relationships and on practical skills. One common approach looks at how attachment patterns shape interactions and helps people notice and change those patterns to reduce anxiety and improve closeness. Another frequently used style focuses on problem-solving and behavioral steps to manage anxiety and depression, such as breaking tasks into smaller parts and building coping routines.

Finding the right method is often a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each client to pick approaches that fit their goals, needs, and preferences and will adjust methods as progress is made. Clients and the therapist decide together what to try and how to measure small changes over time.

Session formats are not listed in the biography, so confirm current online options before booking. Many people find online sessions easier to fit around work, school, or study because they remove travel time and allow quicker check-ins. Other practical benefits include choosing quieter surroundings and avoiding camera use when preferred. Check the booking details to see which formats are offered for scheduling and access.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Antisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

Kansas

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address for young adults?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy-related issues and supports LGBTQ clients with relationship and sexual concerns.

How would she describe her approach in sessions?

Sessions focus on skill-building, clearer communication, and practical steps to change patterns in relationships and daily life.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 10 years of experience working with a wide range of presenting issues including serious mental illness and developmental differences.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She holds the credential LCMFT and practices in Kansas as a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist.

Can I work with her if I live outside the United States?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are offered?

Session formats are not specified in the profile; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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