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Rebecca (Becky) Holmes

Rebecca (Becky) Holmes, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - young adult issues

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Attachment based work
  • Sleep and eating

About Rebecca

Rebecca (Becky) Holmes is a BACP-registered counsellor based in the United Kingdom with three years of professional experience. She works with adults who are struggling to cope with everyday pressures and emotional overwhelm. Her focus includes stress, anxiety, depression, sleep and eating problems, self-esteem concerns, and difficulties linked to trauma and abuse.

Becky explains wellbeing as how someone feels and copes day to day, not as constant happiness. She offers a straightforward, practical way to look at what is making life harder and what might help. Sessions typically involve talking through current problems, noticing patterns, and trying different ways of responding to difficult feelings.

Her approach draws on attachment-based ideas, client-centred listening, cognitive behavioural techniques, mindfulness practices, and psychodynamic thinking. That means she will often combine exploring past relationship patterns with simple, evidence-informed steps to manage symptoms now. Mindfulness exercises and CBT-style tasks can be used to reduce anxiety and improve sleep.

Becky also works with issues around relationships, intimacy, parenting strains, and addictions. She pays attention to how past loss or abandonment affects present trust and connection. Where relevant she will address body image, eating and food-related concerns, and the stress faced by carers or those living with chronic illness.

She accepts international clients and runs sessions through the site subscription model. To begin, prospective clients complete a short matching questionnaire and arrange an initial appointment via the online booking flow.

How her approaches work online

Rebecca commonly combines attachment-based ideas with cognitive behavioural techniques and client-centred listening. Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships affect current connections and trust, helping people notice patterns that repeat in relationships. Cognitive behavioural techniques focus on changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviours with practical exercises to reduce anxiety, improve sleep, or address low mood. Client-centred listening means the therapist pays close attention to what matters to the client and reflects that back to help clarify goals.

Finding the right blend of approaches is part of the process. Becky will work collaboratively to decide what feels most useful for a person’s goals, needs and preferences. She adapts work as progress is made and as new issues come up, checking in about what is helping and what could change.

The biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm available options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy around study, work or caregiving commitments and remove travel time. They also allow for quieter check-ins, shorter or longer appointments when needed, and practising techniques in everyday settings without needing to travel.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issues

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does Becky help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, self-esteem, sleep and eating problems, addictions, relationship and intimacy concerns, and related areas listed on her profile.

What is her style in sessions?

She uses client-centred listening alongside attachment-based ideas and cognitive behavioural techniques. Sessions mix talking about patterns with practical steps and mindfulness practices.

How much experience does she have?

Becky has three years of professional counselling experience working in the United Kingdom.

What qualification does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Yes, she accepts international clients. Sessions are offered in English.

Which session formats are offered?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions are provided via a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started with her?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session through the booking flow.

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Rebecca (Becky) HolmesBACP

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