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Lee Whelan

Lee Whelan, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - Addictions and Relationships

  • Attachment-based work
  • CBT strategies
  • Motivational interviewing

About Lee

Lee Whelan is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom with five years working directly in therapeutic roles. He focuses on issues such as addiction, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy-related concerns, grief, eating and stress. He also supports people dealing with family problems, parenting pressures, trauma and abuse, and neurodivergent concerns such as ADHD.

Before qualifying as a counsellor Lee worked in health education and the justice system and in substance abuse support roles. That background shaped a practical approach to talking about difficult experiences. He uses clear language and steady pacing in sessions so people feel able to bring real problems to the room.

Lee combines Attachment-Based ideas with Client-Centred work and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). Sessions often involve looking at how patterns in relationships began, noticing unhelpful thoughts, and practising small changes people can use day to day. He draws on Motivational Interviewing when people want to shift behaviour around substances or eating.

People meet a counsellor who aims to be straightforward and collaborative. Lee helps clients break big problems into manageable steps and checks in about what feels useful as therapy continues. He is used to working with adults facing life transitions, relationship strain, or repeated cycles that feel stuck.

Practical details are discussed at first contact. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time, and international clients are accepted. Prospective clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule an initial appointment.

How Lee’s approaches translate to online work

Lee commonly uses Attachment-Based Therapy to look at relationship patterns and how early bonds shape current reactions; this helps with intimacy issues, abandonment concerns and codependency. Client-Centred Therapy forms another strand and means sessions focus on the person’s experience, with the counsellor following the client’s lead and reflecting what matters most. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) provides tools to spot and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviours, useful for anxiety, low mood and stress.

Finding the best fit is part of the process. Lee will discuss approaches with the client and agree a plan based on their goals and preferences. That plan can change as therapy progresses, with regular check-ins about what is helpful.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current online options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into study, work or travel schedules, and can allow shorter check-ins when time is limited. It also removes the need to travel and can help people keep appointments during busy weeks. Registered or accredited professionals like Lee aim to adapt session length and pacing to suit everyday life and practical needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disorders

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityJealousyMen's issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Lee focus on?

He works with addiction, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy concerns, eating issues, grief, family problems and related areas listed in his profile.

How would he describe his therapeutic style?

His style combines Attachment-Based, Client-Centred and CBT approaches, with practical steps and collaborative goal-setting.

How much experience does he have?

Lee has five years of experience as a counsellor and prior roles in health education and the justice system that inform his practice.

Is he registered with any professional body and where is he located?

He is listed with the BACP and works from the United Kingdom.

Does he offer sessions in other languages or to people outside the UK?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are used?

The original biography did not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions paid for?

Sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time and cost varies with location.

How do I begin if I want to see him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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