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Christian Jacobs

Christian Jacobs, LMFT

California

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LMFT - Young adult issues and relationships

  • Stress and anxiety
  • CBT and DBT methods
  • Parenting and fatherhood

About Christian

Christian Jacobs is a California-licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with nine years of clinical experience. He helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, career worries, self-esteem problems, and the practical pressures that come with young adulthood. He also supports clients facing trauma, addiction concerns, grief, sleep difficulties, anger, ADHD, and intimacy-related issues.

Christian uses straightforward conversation in sessions. He listens for what matters most and works with each person to set clear goals. He draws on client-centered methods to focus the work around the person's priorities. He also uses cognitive behavioral techniques to spot and change unhelpful thinking patterns.

Beyond those methods, he brings tools from dialectical behavior therapy for emotional regulation and from existential approaches when clients are dealing with questions about meaning and choice. He also incorporates aspects of the Gottman Method for people addressing relationship patterns and communication problems. Sessions mix skill practice, reflection, and concrete next steps to test in everyday life.

Christian has supported people with parenting and fatherhood concerns, blended family challenges, codependency, and caregiver stress. He also has experience with chronic health issues, body image, abandonment and attachment concerns, and problems related to substance use.

Sessions are conducted in English and Christian works with clients in California while also accepting international clients. Before booking, readers should confirm current session formats and scheduling details so they know how therapy will fit into their life.

How Christian uses therapy approaches online

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and following the client's priorities. It helps when someone needs a trusted space to sort through decisions, relationship questions, or identity concerns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors connect. It is useful for tackling anxiety, low mood, and work or study stress by practicing new ways of thinking and behaving.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Christian will collaborate with clients to decide whether client-centered listening, CBT skills work, or DBT-based emotion tools are the best fit. This happens through discussion and trying techniques together, adjusting based on what helps the person meet their goals.

Confirm the current session formats before booking, as specific options are not listed in the biography. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins during a work or study break. They also let people practice skills in everyday settings and move between different activities while keeping the therapeutic process consistent.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementBipolar disorderDepressionCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

Can he help with feeling lost after university?

Yes. He lists coping with life changes, career worries, and self-esteem as areas he works with and can help with transitions after school.

What is his style in sessions?

He uses a conversational, goal-focused style and draws on client-centered work to keep the focus on the client's priorities.

How much clinical experience does he have?

Christian has nine years of professional experience working with a range of concerns including anxiety, depression, trauma, and addictions.

Where is he licensed to practice?

He holds an LMFT credential in California and provides services from that state.

Does he offer sessions in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats does he provide?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

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