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Carey-Sue Ham

Carey-Sue Ham, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - Stress and trauma support

  • Client centred
  • Emotionally focused
  • Mindfulness

About Carey-Sue

Carey-Sue Ham is a BACP counsellor in the United Kingdom with nine years of professional experience. She works with adults facing anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addiction, relationship strain and other common stresses of life. Carey-Sue focuses on practical help for people trying to cope with change and difficulty.

She frames the client as the expert on their own life and draws on that knowledge to plan sessions. Conversations tend to centre on what is happening now, what matters to the client, and which small steps could make daily life easier. Carey-Sue uses listening, reflective feedback and goal-focused discussions to help people move forward.

Her background includes helping people recover from narcissistic abuse and supporting those with grief, sleep problems, parenting pressures and career uncertainty. She also supports clients dealing with attachment concerns, chronic illness or long-term caregiving stress.

Carey-Sue uses a mix of clinical approaches to suit different needs, including client-centred work, emotionally-focused ideas, mindfulness and psychodynamic thinking. Sessions may involve noticing patterns, learning short grounding practices, and discussing relationship dynamics.

People who contact her can expect a straightforward style and a focus on practical change over time. The initial steps focus on understanding immediate concerns and agreeing realistic next actions. This helps people fit therapy into the rest of their lives without adding pressure.

How her approaches translate to online sessions

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and reflecting what matters to the person. In practice this looks like a therapist who follows the client's lead, asks clarifying questions and helps shape goals based on the client's priorities. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) pays attention to patterns in close relationships and the feelings that drive them. It can help people who want clearer communication, less conflict and stronger emotional connection. Mindfulness Therapy introduces short practices to notice thoughts and bodily reactions, which can be useful for anxiety, sleep problems and stress management.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about their goals, try different ways of working and agree together which methods feel most helpful. This collaborative process means the plan can change if something does not fit.

Confirm the specific session formats before booking, as the biography does not list formats. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy around studies, jobs and busy weeks. It can allow shorter check-ins, avoid travel time and let someone have a session from wherever they happen to be at that moment. Registered or accredited professionals will adapt activities like grounding exercises, emotional reflection and short practical tasks for the online setting so therapy can link directly back to everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She helps adults with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addiction, relationship and family concerns, grief, sleep problems and work or career pressures.

What is her approach in sessions?

She uses client-centred listening alongside emotionally-focused and solution-focused ideas. Sessions mix reflective listening, practical steps and gentle exploration of relationship patterns.

How much experience does she have?

She has nine years of professional work experience supporting adults with a wide range of issues.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be held in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

She accepts international clients.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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