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Verity Spencer

Verity Spencer, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP therapist - anxiety and relationships

  • Anxiety and stress
  • Relationship difficulties
  • CBT and psychodynamic

About Verity

Verity Spencer is a BACP therapist with 14 years of clinical experience based in the United Kingdom. She works with common young adult concerns such as anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties and coping with life changes. Verity also supports people dealing with depression, grief, trauma and intimacy-related issues. Sessions are aimed at reducing confusion and helping people make practical choices about their next steps.

Verity uses an integrative approach that brings together person-centred ideas, psychodynamic thinking and cognitive behavioural techniques. In practice this means she listens to how a person sees their life, looks for patterns in feelings and behaviour, and works on clear steps to change unhelpful thinking. Conversations are straightforward and focused on what the client wants to address.

Her background includes roles in boarding school counselling and a psychological support service for young people in Bracknell, Berkshire. She also worked internationally in radio and television, experience that shaped her ability to work with people from different cultural and religious backgrounds. That practical experience informs how she talks about relationships, work stress and identity concerns.

Sessions aim to help people manage challenges such as sleeping problems, parenting stress, career pressure and compassion fatigue. Verity pays attention to how attachment and past relationships affect present choices. She encourages reflection and practical steps rather than technical jargon.

If someone is unsure where to begin, she recommends a short initial conversation to map out priorities and agree the next steps. The focus is on clarity, planning and manageable change.

How her approaches fit with online work

Attachment-based work looks at patterns in relationships and how early connections shape current feelings. It helps when trust, intimacy or recurring relationship problems are the main issue. Client-centred therapy focuses on being listened to and having one’s own goals respected, which suits people who want a calm space to clarify pressures and choices. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) targets patterns of thinking and behaviour and is useful for anxiety, low mood and sleep problems by teaching practical coping skills.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Verity will discuss which methods suit a person’s goals and preferences and will adapt the focus as needs change. That collaborative process means the direction of sessions can shift from exploring patterns to practising specific techniques when appropriate.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current online options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy around study or work, cut travel time, allow shorter check-ins during busy weeks and let someone choose whether to be on camera. Registered or accredited professionals can offer these practical benefits while working to keep sessions focused on daily life and clear next steps.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCancerCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Psychodynamic Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She supports people with anxiety, stress, depression, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem and life changes. The biography also lists grief, trauma, sleeping and career concerns.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

She uses an integrative style combining person-centred listening with psychodynamic thinking and cognitive behavioural techniques. That means there is time to talk about feelings and also to work on sensible steps to change.

How long has she been practising?

She has 14 years of experience working in counselling and psychological support settings.

Where is she based and what credential does she hold?

She works in the United Kingdom and is listed with the BACP as provided in the biography.

Can English speakers from other countries work with her?

Sessions are offered in English. The profile states that international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so confirm current session options before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, as stated in the factsheet.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

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